"Tantra is a sexual technique for majority of people in countries like United States, Canada, Britain and Europe. For people in India, Tantrism is more related to religious rituals and is often associated with Shakti cult. The divine union of Shiva and Shakti (Purusha and Prakrti) is beyond imagination and words are not powerful enough to describe it and it is not a mere sexual union. But today this divine union is marketed in the name of Tantric Sex in the West. In fact, Tantra is a sex technique for a majority of the people but in reality it is much more than a sexual technique.

People are always after instant pleasure – which lasts for couple of seconds. Tantra is bliss – self realization that you are part of the Supreme Being.

Bliss is constant. But the pleasure and happiness graph rises and immediately dips – creating frustration and craving.

Tantra as a mere sexual technique creates disappointment and confusion. But when we approach Tantra as a whole it opens the door of self realization."

"Though tantric sex has been in existence in the Indian subcontinent for ages, it came to international limelight recently with singer Sting. A famous proponents of the discipline, he has been very vocal about practicing it in real life. He has described it as "a journey", not "f****** for eight hours".

In the tantric model, there is no goal, only the present moment of exquisite union.In the tantric model, there is no goal, only the present moment of exquisite union. For this reason, lovemaking is meditative, expressive and intimate.Lovers can experience several orgasms in a single sexual encounter.

However, the concept may have been much misunderstood and misinterpreted by the masses. Sexologist Rajan Bhosle says," Tantric sex is not an auto-technique where you lose energy but both get enriched in energy while making the divine journey."

"Sexual energy is one of our most powerful energy and Tantric Sex is a medium to use this awesome energy in the best way possible. Tantric sex is not about achieving an intense orgasm or reaching the final stage. It is an art were couples prolong their sexual act to an extent where the potent sexual energy and intimacy with your partner reaches at the apex stage.

Here are some simple tips which will help beginners take maximum pleasure and gain immense sexual energy through Tantric Sex."

• First and foremost design a perfect space for sexual activity


• Get Close and Breathe Each Other’s Breathe


• Look into each others eyes while making love


• Slowness is the Key