How Tanta Becomes Junk Food Sex
9:31 AM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"Ecstatic Sex versus Tantric Sex Comparing the Two Sexual Approaches""How Tanta Becomes Junk Food Sex
Examples of Instant Intimacy Included:
- Getting naked right away with one or more strangers in such a way an individual might not have time to feel fully at choice or have enough time to process effectively any discomfort created in doing so.
- Immediately touching each other in sexual ways without knowing much more than your sexual partner's first name (if that).
- Being encouraged along sexual lines that individuals might feel uncomfortable with and simply being told to over-ride these uncomfortable feelings in the name of being "hip." (See sex for all the wrong reasons to learn more).
- Having strangers touch sensitive areas in the body (such as a woman's G spot) where intense emotions of both a positive and negative nature could be triggerd off without having a qualified sex therapist (or truly enlightened tantra teacher) there to help process those emotions in a safe, loving, non-overwhelmed and healing way.
- Acting as if teaching men how to sustan an erection for a long period of time is equivelent to showing them how to be more intimate (with himself or his partner). Though sustained erections do allow a man to take his time in pleasuring his partner, they do not necessarily go hand in hand with creating a deeper ecstatic connection. In short though ecstasy always contains pleasure, pleasure does not always contain ecstasy."
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3 Types of Tantric Sex Techinques
10:05 AM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"The 3 basic tantra tantric sex technique categories"Type 1 - the “give and receive method” - This tantra tantric sex technique involves the couple sharing their "energies" during sex. Think of it like a circle of energy - an electrical circuit if you will. The couple can also "tap into" the energies of the Earth and the Universe/Spirit (which then feeds more energy into this "circuit", and the energy builds and grows).
Type 2 - the “take” method - In this tantra tantric sex technique, one partner uses the power of their mind (through visualization) to take advantage of the other, essentially "sucking" and “hogging” all the sexual and "life energy" (reiki) for themselves. This was primarily done by men in some cultures, but women have been known to do it also, draining a man's energy to "stay young".
Type 3 - the "modern" methods - Many new tantra tantric sex technique methods have cropped up in the last 40 years. Created by teachers who have no legitimate training or background (other than "certificates" from someone with no training or background), they may still call it tantra, tantric sex, tantric yoga, tantra yoga, or whatever, but they are really "(E) - none of the above".
New methods are often justified by their creators, as filling a need for adapting a traditional tantric sex technique "for modern times and western civilization". There is a need for that. Yet if they've never had any traditional training, what can they "adapt"? They can't adapt something they never had in the first place. But we can - and have."
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Basic Philosophy behind Tantric Yoga
3:19 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"While most forms of yoga seek to unite the mind, body and spirit in harmonious oneness, tantric yoga actually takes that process to a higher spiritual level. This type of yoga is tied to many Eastern religions and philosophies that all stem from the belief that the universe and the individual are intertwined. The process of tantric yoga involves concentrating one’s energy to achieve spiritual regeneration and awareness. This type of yoga cannot be taught in books – it is generally learned through devotion to a single yogi who passes the philosophies and discipline down to other students.
Tantric yoga is actually considered more of a life philosophy than simply an exercise program. It can be used effectively in quitting many bad habits, including smoking, drinking and overeating. This can mean that someone who subscribes to this philosophy can lose weight and achieve optimum health in other ways as well. In fact, quitting unhealthy habits is one of the core processes that are involved with the practice of tantric yoga, and the keys to successfully completing this process are found within the discipline itself.
If you decide that tantric yoga is the right type of yoga for you, you will find that the benefits of this style of yoga can be great and far reaching. In addition to the physical benefits that you will enjoy from any type of yoga, like increased flexibility, balance and muscle tone, you will also see an increased awareness in all levels of your conscious state. It can also affect your sex life positively by enhancing sexual function and increasing stamina. It is even thought to improve prostate function in men who perform this type of yoga regularly. Tantric yoga can improve your health in physical, mental and even spiritual ways."
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A Tantric Exercise
5:13 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"Simple 3-minute tantric exercise""Remember that tantra is transformation. The following is a simple 3-minute tantric exercise that anybody can do.
1. Close your eyes and notice your current mental and emotional state - good or bad, up or down.
2. Then start instantly remembering any moment, memory, feeling, image, sound, or smell, that makes you profoundly happy… even makes you laugh…
3. Remain in that feeling and allow it to intensify until you can feel it throughout your body. Feel yourself smiling, and your eyes twinkling.
4. Now think of a loving, happy moment - anything that gives you a warm, wonderful feeling in the center of your chest. Feel it and remain in it.
5. Let go of the memory and keep the feeling. Remain in the feeling. That “warm fuzzy” feeling in your chest is caused by your thymus gland, which sits on the left side of your chest atop your physical heart. Notice how you feel now. Transforming, isn’t it?
The thymus hormones not only give you that warm fuzzy feeling, but they also triumph over cortisol (the “stress” hormone which kills through long-term exposure).
You’ve just performed an instant tantric “de-stress,” using nothing but your own “mind” - your nervous and endocrine systems… and the good new is, the more you stimulate the good feelings, the easier it is for you to have more.
Modern science shows that your body builds new “neural networks” just to channel the peptides bringing you those good feelings!
6. So repeat the exercise to strengthen the positive neural networks.
Smile, Breathe Right, and Keep Your Tongue Up!"
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The Tantric Science
5:15 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"Who gave the bad name for Tantric Science?""Tantric science is being misquoted with the occult, vulgar sex and other religious dogma. Those who don’t understand it properly label it as some mystical occult thing, and unholy thing. Many people still consider tantra to be full of obscenities and unfit for people of good taste. It is also often accused of being a kind of black magic.
If you learn it from from the “right” source or person, you will understand it what it means. When you learn it in depth you will understand it as it is pure medical science. It is all related with our Autonomic nervous system and brain. All the chakras are nothing but nervous plexus on either side of the spinal cord. It is not mystery anymore.
Within the brain, the autonomic nervous system regulates and adjusts baseline body function . It consists of two -sympathetic and parasympathetic the sympathetic is ergo tropic that is releases energy, and the parasympathetic is trophotropic, that is conserving energy.
Tantric science has been one of the most neglected branches of Indian spiritual studies despite the considerable number of texts devoted to this practice, which dates back to centuries."
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Different types of Tantra
1:17 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"Different types of Tantra
There are six types of Tantric study: Hindu Tantra; Buddhist Tantra; Taoist Tantra; Western Neo-Tantra; Quodoushka Tantra and Ipsalu Tantra.
Tantra has been around for over 10,000 years, it is an amazing form of yoga.
Hindu Tantra. The Hindus are accredited with the origins of this sacred path because Tantra flourished in the temples of India centuries ago. Its practices are most commonly known by the text of the Karma Sutra, the ancient bible of lovemaking that describes not just sexual position but the value and practices of love.
Buddhist Tantra. (I use this form of Tantra) Tantric sex practices spread from India through Nepal and into China, where the Taoist traditions incorporated sacred rites and added their own philosophy, movements, and practices.
Taoist Tantra. This practice focused on the tradition of unswerving adherence to ejaculatory control; consistent with the view that not to do so ruins a man's health. (Read: Mantak Chia)
Western Neo-Tantra. This is the American European adaptation of the earlier traditions, based on sexual and spiritual practices made accessible for Western lifestyle and understanding. Neo-Tantra combines: ancient Tantra, Eastern teachings of yoga, Tantra, and Karma Sutra with more familiar Western psychological techniques of various psychological disciplines (transpersonal, cognitive-behavioral, neurolinguistic, gestalt), emotional release processes, massage, somatic therapies (music), and sexual enhancement skills.
Ipsalu Tantra. This form of Tantra focuses on realizing the true self by attention to emotional flow and skillfully designed techniques for safely activating kundalini (powerful and creative) energy. The word Ipsalu is Sanskrit for "transcending illusions of desire," meaning to free ego desires to reach bliss through union with the self, the beloved, and the universe.
Quodoushka. Originally practices of sacred sexuality from ancient Mayan and Toltec schools of learning, this once secret Native American system is now being revived. Quodoushka teaches the fire breath as a means to full-body orgasm. Sexual encounter is meant to align the four directions: south, north, west and east. Sexuality is the center representing the soul, the life force that and connects the body and mind, all beings, and all that exists. "
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The Tantric Yoga
4:51 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"Tantric yoga knows it all", Mahasaya, no date"Tantric Yoga highlights the exaltation of the physical being more than anything else.
Tantra is known to be the concept that arises out of this kind of commitment to oneself, which is the basis of Tantra. And the supporters of this side of belief are called tantrics. These people not only worship the physical state but also got to any degree to please the body to achieve occult powers.
As of this time, it is not widely practiced and used in India. And it survived only in some parts of India in the middle of the jungles and hills of the Himalayas.
However, there are many clashes about its origin and source. Some have researched and discovered that the Pre-Aryans are the originators and others transcribe it to the norms of the early people. It is known to have risen at the same time Buddhism was flourishing. And because of this, some Buddhists had incorporated and adopted some of the Tantric signs and symbols.
And later on, it has grown to form a faction or guild. Like the Vedas, Tantras are composed of collections of poems and verses that speak of the elaborate methods on the righteous and proper of worship and adoration.
Often, some people perceive them as obscure and mystical in sense that is usually addressed to the persons who perform or do tantric acts. These persons are usually, sadhakas. These Sadhakas live a very simple life. And the practice of Yoga is like a prayer for them. He usually meditates in the lone and secluded places in the countryside far, far away from the madding society. His robes and his begging bowl distinguish him. He also sells medicine, shells, charms and herbal pieces.
This may be his good side but the other half lingers in vicious outrages and he inflicts austerities upon himself. The various positions of love-making and sex itself outline a significant principle of tantrism."
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Tantric Terms
3:43 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
- Asana - a physical posture, or yoga related position
- Amrita-female ejaculate; The Nectar of the Goddess; Fountain of youth
- Ananda- divine bliss, oneness with higher realms of holy peace
- Bandah - muscular lock, used to direct and intensify sacred energy.
- Chakras - nerve centers of the subtle body; seven in number, base of spine, genitals, belly, heart, throat, forehead (third eye), top of head
- Dakini - Female Tantrica or Yogini. An attendant or servant to Great Goddess by holding the intention to embody Her highest will; Commonly used to describe a Priestess, healer, alchemist, or initiate skilled at high level arts.
- Darma- Your soul's purpose, a completion of karma through Divine servitude
- Devi - Goddess; Deity; a holy creative power
- Dharma - divine duty, or highest spiritual path
- Hatha - literally the "Sun joins the Moon" symbolically translates to the soul's connection with the body
- Kama- love
- Kriya - system of internal purification, cleansing process
- Kundalini- latent energy located at the base of the spine. Kundalini is like coiled sleeping serpent. The yogi works to gently awaken this dormant energy to attain enlightenment.
- Lingam - a man's "wand of light" from Linga, pillar of adoration and worship of Lord Shiva- cosmic masculine force, igniting destruction or creation, consort and Tantric lover to Shakti
- Mantra - a sacred phrase of spiritual significance and power; verbal chant
- Maya - illusion that one's personality can use to limit or challenge the Soul
- Mudra - sacred hand gestures to focus the body's energy with intention
- Nirvana - Ultimate spiritual peace, a place that transcends birth and death and absolute freedom from attachment is achieved. The Vedas say when you reach the attainment your soul no longer needs to incarnate on the earth plane
- Ojas - subtle vital force within the body which can lower immunity and vitality through forced orgasm, excessive and/or genitally focused ejaculation
- Prana - Energy, air, breath, life force; received by the body from pure food, nurturing, healing and self transformation
- Puja - a specific ritual, or sacred circle of worship
- Reiki - Japanese work which employs Universal Healing Energy
- Samadhi - deep meditative state
- Shakti- the divine mother; the power of consciousness and spiritual evolution
- Shaman - American Indian name for a spiritual healer
- Sky Dancing - a translated Tantric term used to describe transcendental love making where partners, overcome their differences and dance in cosmic space
- Sutra- lesson
- Tejas - fire element of the body which can burn out with excessive toxin intake, drug use, cigarette smoking and even everyday city life.
- Upandishads - literally "secret teachings" the last portion of the Vedas
- Yab-Yum - an asana in which woman sits astride facing her partner; chakras are aligned, alternate breath can accompany this posture, a.k.a. "yogananda" or the position of the cosmic spiral.
- Yang- active, quick, firm, masculine or technical energy
- Yantra - mystic geometrical diagram used for healing meditation
- Yin - receptive, gentle, soft sensuality, feminine or intuitive energy
- Yoni- A woman's sacred temple; ring like symbol of Shakti or female power
- Yuga - era, epoch. This age is the end of the
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Tantric Ejaculatory Control
3:32 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"According to studies, around 70 percent of women do not reach an orgasm during intercourse. Why? One reason may be that the man does not know how to properly stimulate her, so she never really becomes aroused enough to climax. Another reason is that he ejaculates before she has time to to reach climax.
Two Tantric techniques for ejaculatory control will allow you to last long enough for her to climax. Use masturbation to practice these exercises before trying them with your partner. It will take most men several sessions to master each one. Even the most sympathetic wife or girlfriend will get tired of being used for "training."
Exercise One: Pressing the Prostate Point (PPP)
Between your testicles and anus is the perineum. There 's a soft spot there through which you can apply pressure to your prostate. For most men, prostate stimulation reduces the likelihood of ejaculating involuntarily. This is because it flushes seminal fluid from the prostate gland .
If you push hard enough on your prostate point right before ejaculating, it actually blocks the emission phase (ejaculation phase). This exercise prevents seminal fluid from entering the urethral canal when your orgasmic spasms start. Even if you have orgasmic contractions, the semen remains inside your body and is re-absorbed.
Inside your body, at the base of your penis is the muscle called pubococcygeus. People call it PC for short. This exercise teaches you to use your PC muscles to delay ejaculation. To perform a Root Lock, hold your breath momentarily and push your pelvic muscles out like straining to empty your bowels. Some men prefer pushing in rather than out."
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The Purpose of Tantra Yoga
4:06 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"Learning About Tantra Yoga", You Can Stay Young, April 8, 2008Tantra yoga works by providing the methodology and tools that are necessary in order to achieve this, and teaches students to be able to better identify the various factors that are influencing their thoughts and feelings, so that they can lose any of those which are negative and start on their way to leading a better and happier life.
The Purpose
The literal meaning of the term tantra is to expand or transform, and thus is the purpose of Tantra yoga. This form of yoga is also very interrelated with tantric sexual processes, and the Tantra here is a basic ancient Hindu practice that mixes meditation and non-orgasmic sex in order to attain a state of perfect bliss. The skill in developing ways of delaying orgasm and manipulating one’s ability to control the climax is what is truly important here.
The ritual is generally and rather loosely based on activating the human energy centers, known as Chakras, which hold the potential to reach cosmic awareness. It is believed that the human body has 6 different main Chakras, one at the base of the spine, near the navel, near the heart, near throat, between the brows, and most importantly the genitals."
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Sex and Psychedelics
4:41 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"Tantra, Secrets and Psychedelics", MyDakini, February 12, 2008"...Although the ritualistic mixing of sex and psychedelics is ancient--and openly discussed in the writings of iconoclastic philosophers like Aleister Crowley and Robert Anton Wilson--the psychopharmacological techniques for activating higher states of sexual consciousness remain unknown by most people, and they are often kept secret from early initiates of Tantra. Techniques for enhancing sexual rituals with sacred plants are rarely mentioned in popular books on Tantra or in Tantra workshops.
This important omission is deliberate. It's due to the fact that it requires a good bit of training to handle the enormous amount of energy that a Tantric-psychedelic session can generate. Tantric sex can be quite intense on its own, and that may be more than enough for most people who are interested in exploring Tantra. Not everyone can handle shivering in ecstasy for hours while their partner's face is melting. The omission of psychedelics is also largely due to the fact that most people in the Tantric community are aware that the idea of a sexually-based spirituality is controversial enough for most people. Mixing sex and religion elicits strong taboos in many people. Making it widely known that some of those same people who are mixing sex and religion are also using "Schedule I drugs" may not be the wisest way to gain societal acceptance during a time in history when sacred plants are regarded as forbidden fruit by the Puritanical overlords of society. So their secrecy is understandable...-David Jay Brown"
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The Art of Tantric Sex
2:47 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"Tantra Art from India", HealthVice, March 24, 2008"Tantric sex, in brief, is based on the female partner using her PC muscles (the same muscles used to stop the flow of urine) to delay orgasm. The practice is said to come from Buddhist folklore.
As tantric practice become known in western culture -- a development that started at the end of of the 18th century, and that has escalated since the 1960s -- it has become identified with its sexual methods. Consequently, its essential nature as spiritual practice is often overlooked. The roles of sexuality in Tantra and in Neotantra, while related, are actually quite different, reflecting substantial differences in their cultural contexts.
In Neotantra the most important features of sexual practice revolve around the experience of subtle energies within our sensual embodiment, and the accessing of these energies both to enhance pleasure and to challenge our egotism into its dissolution. Thus, tantric sexuality often cultivates ecstatic consciousness as well as increased spiritual awareness of the erotic consciousness that pervades our human embodiment as well as everything that contextualizes this embodiment."
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Tantra Healing Energy
2:03 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"You have probably come across exotic-sounding terms such as “chakra”, “prana”, “aura”, and “tantra” in your course of reading books on spirituality, sex, and healing in the New Age literature section of the bookstore. But what’s the real scoop behind these exotic vocabularies?
Are All Energy Healings the Same?
Chakra or energy center is a term used in Pranic healing, an ancient Hindu system of energy healing. “Prana” means life energy. “Aura” is another terminology traced to Pranic healing. Aura is a non-physical body that consists of energy, which exists along with our physical body. The aura that covers our body is said to have seven layers pertaining to the physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual aspects of an individual as manifested by energy. Studying the color and thickness of auras give ideas on the state of health of individuals. Six colors are associated with aura and interpreted into six personalities. These colors are all present in an individual but one or two are more pronounced.
1. Green – ambitious achiever
2. Blue – spiritual peacemaker
3. White – unconventional chameleon
4. Red – activist
5. Orange – creative communicator
6. Violet - psychic
Although Tantra is popularly associated with the peculiar practice of sex and spirituality, it is another method of energy healing. It comes from the word “tan” which means to spread or expand. The concept of connectedness is a recurring theme in Tantric writings on sex and spirituality. As a method of healing, spirituality and sex figure prominently. It is presupposed that the union of man and woman can reach spiritual levels during orgasm, which removes the body and mind off collected impurities. These impurities being negative energies can in turn manifest as physical illnesses."
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The Tantric Sex Energy
1:54 AM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship
"Boost Health With Tantric Sex",Healthblogger.us, February 21, 2008
Realize that orgasms can occur throughout the body. Although the sensations will be pleasurable, they might not be exactly the same as normal orgasms centered in the sexual organs.
Know that tantric sex aids secretion in the pituitary gland. These secretions guide the endocrine system, which oversees the thyroid and sex organs and regulates immune system function. By aiding the endocrine system, tantric sex normalizes blood pressure and water (lymphatic) flow in the body."
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