"Tantric sex" is something you've surely heard about at least one time in your life. It is because this way of thinking becomes more and more popular in the last few years.

They say that people who teach the techniques of Tantric sex can engage in love and make it for long hours without stopping. Virtually, prolonged intercourse is something you could really achieve when practicing Tantra, however, it's not about duration or quantity. It's all about quality and the prowess to connect with universe, love and a whole world apart. The goal of Tantric sex is not the orgasm itself, but the ways we explore our sexuality, feel and perceive intimacy. Tantra doesn't imply a concrete scenario like Western approaches to sex (flirt, foreplay, excitement, sex). Tantra comes with feelings, understanding of your own body, it does not zero in on external evaluation of our bodies, etc. Tantric sex offers people a new way of thinking and fulfillment.

The primordial goal of Tantra is not to lose the energy in vain but leave it inside and spend it for other purposes rather than for sex."

"Until to-day most Hindu women do not know that Brahma and Vishnu is within the Yoni. They only see Shiva’s lingam exposed. They have never been thought the real meaning of the symbol. For most people praying to the Shiva Lingam is praying to Lord Shiva and not in union with Sakti. And those who know do not speak of it. I myself grew up praying to the Shiva Lingam without knowing the real meaning.

This teaching was suppressed because it was expressing the strength and power of the FEMALE RACE.

The Yoni is sub-divided into 10 parts in Yoni-tantra, and each part being connected with different aspects of Devi.

1. Yoni mula is Devi 2. yoni is Naganandini. Yoni chakra is Kali and Tara, 5. Yoni kuntala is Chinnamasta. 6. yoni samipatas is Bagala and Matangi 7. yoni garta is Mahalaksmi, Sodasi and Bhuvanesvari

In Yoni Tantra the yoni is discreibed as a triangular form of mahamaya or Prakrit as the origin of the world, and the three corners of the Yoni are Brahma, Visnu and Mahesvara.

In the art of human creation all females or males must come through a female; thus women occupy the highest rank in the order of creative force.

As stressed in most Tantrik teachings that all things was created from Mahamaya and from her Yoni all the Gods and all beings were created."

"Tantric Goddess"

"In neo-tantra and modern Tantric culture, The Goddess is many times referred to as Shakti-that divine energy- the sexual electricity that flows through our cells most commonly when making love and experienced directly as orgasm. This energy, this Goddess energy, is to be seen & experienced ultimately in all things. As Life itself is a constant wheel of infinite creativity.

The Goddess is seen as the expression of that voluptuous, life-giving energy that is like the flower abundantly releasing her seed gifts to fill the Universe with the beauty and hope that is the bloom of the Divine.

The Goddess was often worshipped in the form of The Sacred Yoni as seen in many ancient and more recently modern paintings and sculptures. In modern Tantric culture, many tantrika practice as dakinis or tantric goddesses/teachers/partners where they work with students to activate their erotic circuits and facilitate the free-flow of kundalini-shakti in the practice of full-body limitless orgasm through Tantric Massage."

"Have the receiver lie on her back with pillows under her head so she can look down at her genitals and up at her partner (giver). Place a pillow, covered with a towel, under her hips. Her legs are to be spread apart with the knees slightly bent (pillows or cushions under the knees will also help) and her genitals clearly exposed for the massage.

The giver sits cross-legged between the receivers’ legs. The giver may wish to sit on a pillow or cushion. This position allows full access to the Yoni and other parts of the body.
Before contacting the body, begin with deep, relaxed breathing. Both giver and receiver should remember to keep breathing deeply, slowly and with relaxation during the entire process. The giver will gently remind the receiver to start breathing again if the receiver stops or takes shallower breaths. Deep breathing, not hyperventilating, is very important here.

Gently massage the legs, abdomen, thighs, breasts, etc., to get the receiver to relax and for the giver to prepare for touching the Yoni.

Pour a small quantity of a high-quality oil or lubricant on the mound of the Yoni. Pour just enough so that it drips down the outer lips and covers the outside of the Yoni. (Several excellent sexual lubricants are available for this. Many lingerie shops, sex toy shops, sex magazines, etc., offer these safe lubricants.)"

The Lamp outside corresponds to the Lamp within. ‘ Integrate the Fire outside with the Fire within ” this is the basic principle of Tantra. ( Jnanagnim Bahyavagnim cha Ekkekritya Prapoojayeth ). Man is Microcosm, in which he copies the structure of the great Universe.

All external symbols correspond to the inner world in Tanra. With the use of external symbols, the Relative World is transcended.

The Sun is the symbol of the Absolute Self and Moon, the Mind. In Tantric Literature, you will find a lot of reference to the worlds of the Sun and the Moon. Know then that they are symbolic and represents the Male and Female components of the Ulitmate, Self & Mind !

"Many couples face over time that it was pleasure from sex is taking place, and he turns into a routine. You have already try all the new posture and went through the most daring experiments. Proposes to move to a higher spiritual level and learn Tantric sex. Tantra - mystical object which can not be clearly defined words. This is an ancient Indian philosophical system and the only spiritual practice, which calls the sacred sex and does not consider a sin, even if this intimate relationships outside marriage. Tantra is considering the body as a living temple. Sex is recognized Tantroy one way of learning itself and the world. Tantra teaches that men and women is a manifestation of the god and goddess. Through Tantric sexual union between a man and woman can achieve awareness of their god and goddess. The essence of Tantric sex is in this intimate partners unity - is not so much a physical unity, but the spiritual energies of the merger. Partners are a whole - thus the energy of each of them doubles, rather than waning, as usual after sex. What differs from the usual Tantric sex? Tantristy must learn to feel the energy of your partner and be able to dissolve it. Tantra believes sex Space Union of opposites, Yin and Yang, creating the very energies, all of which are born in our universe. When the lovers during Tantra closely in touch with each other, their combined energy, they are beginning to increase their vitality and strength of each other. "

"This shows us that another aspect of Tantric sex is vulnerability. Both partners being willing to show their real selves, their strengths and weaknesses. This is often difficult for men, who are brought up with the 'cowboys don't cry' mentality.

Of course men have emotions, although there are women who believe they don't because many men often equate emotions with vulnerability and weakness.

Tantra is also about balance. This includes the balance between the masculine and feminine within all of us, the balance between the inner and outer, between the light and the dark. No other aspect of human life is filled with such contrast and extremes as sex. No other act expresses the lowest and highest of who we are. Nothing else can be so loving and at other times, so ugly. By creating a space that allows us to acknowledge and touch the darkest parts of ourselves, we are able to bring balance to those desires that otherwise may seem perverse. We diffuse them and take their power away."

"Beginning in the late 1960s and early 1970s the so-called "sexual revolution" in cultural mores, along with increased interest in Eastern religions, led to the widespread popularization of spiriutal-sexual techniques derived from Indian tantra yoga under the slightly misleading name "tantric sex." From that time to the present, gurus and teachers both Eastern and Western have promoted a variety of belief-systems that incorporate to a greater or lesser degree the religious and cultural assumptions and practices of Indian tantra yoga in pursuit of a range of goals as disparate as what one detractor calls "better sex" and actual "moksha" or liberation (e.g. liberation from reincarnation, if reincarnation is included in one's cosmological paradigm). One of the characteristics that sets neo-tantra teachers apart from tantra yoga gurus is that in neo-tantra the emphasis on sexuality is usually quite obvious; in tantra yoga, the opposite is often the case, with some modern gurus insisting that tantra yoga is not sexual at all or that it teaches nothing about sex per se and that the entirety of the practice is concerned with the chanting of mantras, visualization of yantras, practicing of tapas, and the like."