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10:08 AM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"Marijuana and Tantric Sex: A Classic Combination"
www.cannabisculture.com, September 1, 1998

"Sexual cannabis use which transcended hedonism and medicine rose up in an esoteric Hindu-Buddhist tradition known as Tantra, a mystical religion which prescribes physical and mental exercises like meditation and yoga. These practices are intended to help the practicioner escape suffering and achieve enlightenment and perfection, known as Nirvana.

Advanced Tantra marijuana rituals were intense, complex and difficult. Researchers have uncovered sacred texts describing cannabis rituals, but doubt that modern Tantra practitioners still engage in such activities.

Modern Tantra has, like many other indigenous spiritual practices, been co-opted by people with little connection to the cultures, communities and environments from which the religions arose. Modern Tantra, though an important source of sexual and spiritual enlightenment, scarcely resembles the hard-core Tantra described in sacred writings like the Mahanirvana Tantra, which was composed in the 11th century AD.

Tantra practitioners believe that human bodies contain energy systems consisting of nerves, heart and spiritual elements that are linked to cosmic and nature-based energies. Males and females have differing degrees and types of energy; and yogic sexual practices unite these energies, creating "circuits" which allow participants to find new heights of intimacy and to transcend egocentric consciousness, helping them realize their timeless place in the universe. Tantric union of male and female energies is thought to facilitate universal balance and to atone for human sins against nature and the cosmos."


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Tantra Step by Step

10:02 AM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

Here are 2 exercises from our new book 28 Days to Ecstasy for Couples: Tantra Step by Step. In that book we give step by step instructions for many exercises to do each day over the course of 28 days leading the couple to create the experience of sexual/spiritual ecstasy. Energy Awakening with Your Lover

Take turns being the giver and the receiver.

The Receiver

  • lies naked on her back.
  • feet comfortably apart, legs flat on the bed and open enough to allow her genitals to the air.
  • arms are outstretched slightly away from her sides with palms facing up.
  • jaw is relaxed, mouth slightly open, tongue to the roof of her mouth.
  • with closed eyes she consciously relaxes her body and breathes slowly and deeply for one minute.
  • she then opens her eyes and looks into the eyes of The Giver.

The Giver

  • is sitting comfortably to her right.
  • when she opens her eyes he says words to this effect: “My goddess, it would give me great joy to awaken you to the ecstasy of energy.”
  • the Recevier says “Yes thank you.”
  • the Giver then rubs his palms briskly together for 30 seconds to build heat and energy.
  • with his right hand he gently covers her perineum and yoni and with loving. consciousness passes energy into her. His right hand stays here throughout the meditation.
  • with his left hand, he very slowly begins to stroke up the centre of her body, from her yoni to her crown, moving the energy up with his stroking.
  • strokes are long swooping gestures, very lightly on the skin, done with the whole hand.
  • end the stroke at the crown with a lifting away and above the head, then return to the yoni.
  • both partners visualize and focus on allowing the energy to flow up through the Receiver.
  • to help push the energy up, The Receiver gently contracts and relaxes her PC muscles in sync with the stroking. The rest of her body stays totally relaxed.
  • the Giver speaks words of endearment and encouragement as he strokes eg. “Beloved, I am The Awakener, charging you with my love and my life force, accept my loving gift”.
  • he continues to stroke up his love’s body, gradually increasing the tempo of the caress.
  • both partners continue to breath in a slow, deep fashion.
  • after 6 minutes he stops his caresses and places his left hand on her Heart Chakra – the Sea of Tranquility.
  • for 1 minute The Giver and The Receiver gaze into each other’s eyes allowing their love to flow between them.
  • the Giver very slowly and gently removes his hands and lies down beside The Receiver – bodies touching – her right side to his left.
  • both focus on the energy connection between them.
  • after two minutes the partners switch roles and continue the practice
  • complete the meditation with a full body hug.

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Ceremony of Surrender

In this ceremony the man will completely surrender to his goddess. According to the Buddhist Hevajra Tantra: “At all times, whether washing one’s feet or eating, rinsing the mouth, rubbing the hands, girding the hips with a loincloth, going out, making conversation, walking, standing, in wrath, in laughter; the wise man should always worship and honor the lady.”

The first night he is allowed to sleep in the same room, but only on the floor beside her bed. He may retire only after having lovingly washed and perfumed his goddess’s feet. The second night he can sleep in the bed with her, but he must be fully clothed. The third night he may sleep naked beside her, but without touching her. The fourth night he may kiss, fondle, and caress her, but cannot touch the yoni. The fifth night he may pleasure the yoni orally, but may not enter the sacred place. The sixth night he may penetrate the yoni with his lingam, but my not ejaculate. The seventh night he may ejaculate, if he so chooses, or he may voluntarily retain his seed. According to the Chandamaharosana Tantra: “I (Shakti) am identical to the bodies of all women and there is no way that I can be worshipped except by the worship of women. Visualizing that she is fully my embodiment, he should make love to his woman. Because of uniting the vajra (linga) and padma (yoni), I will grant enlightenment.”

All good things,

Al Link and Pala Copeland



A response to the comment from: "Flower in Bloom Tantric Sex Position"

"I am intereste in the meditation steps before coming together. I recall reading somthing years ago about how, one day you begin just gazing at your partner without touching, fully clothed, using breathing techniques...Then you get closer and closer each day and discard clothing eventually...all of this using special breathing techniques...are there any step by step books that include this? "

Tantra is Empowering

9:37 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"Tantra As Self Empowerment"
asttartedakini.blogspot.com, September 18, 2008

"There are many sayings in times past on "reclaiming your power", or "Women Power", or finding empowerment through sports or martial arts. Few ever talk about, and even fewer know about the hidden secrets and power within Tantra. Tantra as empowerment is a way of reclaiming oneself, finding out who you are, learning tools to access who you are, and then practicing the Tantra techniques, exercises and practices. Tantra allows one a way of manifesting the life you want - the abundance you seek, the lower or beloved of your dreams, the harmonious and passionate relationship and love life you desire with the one you already have, the car or house of your dreams, and so on.

Tantra is empowering because it forces you to tap into your will and draw up energies within yourself to go beyond the uncomfortable until eventually it does become comfortable. I have found no other writings or research on Tantra as self empowerment, but this is one of the biggest reasons ancient masters studied and practiced, and also taught this powerful practice."


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Tantric Sex Positions and Techniques

11:58 AM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"Tantric Discoveries"
www.ariannestclaire.com, September 23, 2008

"Positions/Techniques:

Daily Devotion

This can be very difficult to master, but is great for healing and gaining greater connection between partners. You should be locked in four places: your mouths, legs, arms and genitals. The key to this position is to master enough self-control to stay motionless.


The Scissors

This begins with no physical movement. According to the Rileys, both partners should envision an orange sphere of energy radiating from their sexual centres. Enter into a meditative state by sending your energy back and forth between each other. Contract the vaginal muscles regularly to help stimulate the male erection. This can be great before or after sex.

Yab-Yum

This is a great position for improving your connection with your partner. Sit like this for up to half an hour. Gaze into each other’s eyes and share your feelings about each other. The Rileys suggest saying things like, “What I enjoy about making love is...” and “What I don’t enjoy about making love is...”

The Nurturing Position

According to the Rileys, this position can be used to bond during an argument. Both your heart and sexual centres are connected, which certainly makes it difficult to stay angry for long. It’s also generally just a very comfortable position and is great for cuddling after sex as well."

"Taken from Kerry and Diane Riley’s Tantric Secrets for Men"



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The fuss about Tantric sex

7:55 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

" What is “Tantric Sex” and what is all the fuss about?"
ambermoon.wordpress.com, September 13, 2008
"What is all of the fuss about Tantric sex? Sting says he subscribes to it and practices it often. What is so different about it? Are their weird sex toys involved? Are you supposed to chant while engaging in sexual acts?

The answers are fairly simple and easy to understand. Its not such a wild concept when you understand it. Its over 1500 years old and like Yoga originated in India. Those Indians are wild lovers Ill tell you! Anyway, Tantra means “tools of expansion”. (No, it doesn’t mean expansion of the male genitalia either before you go getting excited). It means expansion of sexual experience.

Tantra is different from western ideas about sex in some important ways. The western concept of sex is like a story with a clear beginning (sexual excitement), middle (penetration), and end (orgasm). This is the way it’s supposed to be and if you don’t follow the story, something is wrong. Sex without penetration is often viewed as being “not real” or “merely” foreplay."


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How Tantra Yoga Works

11:39 AM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"Learning About Tantra Yoga"
www.thehealthguide.org, 9/16/08

"Out of the many different forms of yoga that you can practice, Tantra yoga is easily one of the most popular. Although rather complex to explain, Tantra yoga is basically a holistic approach to the study of the universal from the point of view of the individual. The general aim of this particular form of yoga is to expand awareness in all states of consciousness, whether waking state, dream state or sleep state.

Tantra yoga works by providing the methodology and tools that are necessary in order to achieve this, and teaches students to be able to better identify the various factors that are influencing their thoughts and feelings, so that they can lose any of those which are negative and start on their way to leading a better and happier life."



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Tantric Sex Conditions

8:44 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"Tantric sex"
Published Aug 24, 2008

"Tantric sex requires the following conditions."

"1. If you absorb tantru or have already mastered, to apply it in life, you should stay at a constant partner. Partners may change, but it should be quite rare, because you must be well to explore their tastes, attachments, habits (including sexual).

2. For lessons and exercises, and sex (in tantre sex are, in fact, exercises, because the ultimate goal yaolovogo act is not a pleasure, and, as stated above, the achievement of spiritual Ecstasy) should be good conditions, because any noise or someone else's intervention can significantly reduce the effectiveness of lessons. It is better to engage in exercises and sex during the day, but in general it is acceptable for classes and at night.

3. As mentioned above, the method is tantry sexual proximity, with such intensity that the partners dissolve themselves in each other. If partners will not be physically scrupulously clean, their senses - smell and taste - vosstanut, and the necessary dissolution of each other will not happen. Therefore, before the sex great attention should be paid to clean the skin, oral cavity (preferably clean the surface of the tongue raid fingers or a tea spoon), genital organs.

4. By love, you must be fully raskreposcheny. Allow yourself to cry, to call, or shout during stonat suffering sexual Extase (why is it so important to have appropriate conditions - room should have a good sound insulation). If you can not deal with love emancipation, but not tantra. for you.

5. Partners perceive and recognize sexual intercourse as quite natural, organic way of weaving in their life phenomenon. They are aware of dualism universe, manifested in Luer - yang, in the plus and minus, male and female. For them, sexual intercourse - is a concrete expression of sexuality universe. Therefore, they deny the false sense of sin or stydlivosti.

6. Sexual contacts in tantre which include: poglazhivaniya, sexual games and direct communication, requires sufficient time, at least 2 - x hours. Of course, you can allocate time at all stages of contact, say, 50, 20 and 30 minutes. But the stages of sexual contact is difficult to subordinate certain time frame, and therefore planning stages duration of contact should not be (although guidance - 30 minutes for direct relations - should be present in your minds).

7. Movement of sex should be light, without effort. After all, even tantra known as tantra yoga, and yoga, to be effective, in most cases eliminates the stress. When you are stretching the body, you accumulate byproducts of fatigue, and your physical stamina is declining. (Tension has also contributed to more rapid offensive orgasm.) Furthermore, the motion should be performed graceful, rhythmically. Sex in tantre is like dance of life and should be carried out in the same elegantly, as if you danced. Rejoice flow movements, smooth your body reaction to the actions of a partner. A smooth transition from one movement to another, so that was quietly where one ends and another begins, and would present a continuous feeling of love and understanding. When you learn to move without effort, you doymete that loose sense of time, so that time in our understanding - this sequence of events following one after another. A loss of a sense of passing time leads to the dissolution of partners in each other and, ultimately, to ecstasy."

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Integrating Tantra into daily life

11:13 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"Integrating Tantra into daily life"
www.tantramassagelondon.com/blog, September 10, 2008

"Tantric practises are easily integrated into daily life in many subtle ways. Here is a technique and easy exercise we both use whilst going about our daily routine:

A very important muscle, often referred to as the love muscle in Tantra, is the PC (puboccocogeus) muscle. This is the muscle we use to stop the flow of urine and it is present in both men and women.

Using the PC pump in conjunction with the breath, try inhaling whilst tensing the PC muscle then releasing on the exhale. Once you have mastered that you can try a quick pulsing action or, when you feel comfortable, try tensing and holding for 6 seconds before releasing."


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The Tantric Path

4:01 AM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"What is the Tantric Path?"
by Joan Michaels, www.newagejournal.com

"In the western world, probably, the most common view is that Tantra is connected to Eastern religion, with uninhibited sex and lovemaking positions (as in the Kama Sutra). Another view is that Tantra is about free loving. To others, it’s New Age sex therapy. None of these views is wrong — but, it’s much more. The Tantric path is not an ascetic path, but one where you are actually participating fully in the world. It’s been referred to as the path of indulgence. This might be true, but it can only work with conscious awareness. It’s actually all about energy — the energy of every single moment; and, in order to tune into this energy, one has to be in a state of clarity.

The Tantric (one on the path of Tantra) learns to focus and attune him or herself to the energy of what’s going on around them. The energy is the same for everyone; however, the Tantric works at developing a sensitivity so that they can clearly perceive this energy. This sensitivity is developed through the discipline of keeping your space clear. Simply said, you cannot have a clear state of awareness if the energy isn’t flowing freely throughout your aura and chakras, or if you are not shielded against negative energies coming into your space. It’s not that the Tantric changes his or her lifestyle in any way. It’s that they become more aware in their life. How do they feel? How is their mental clarity? How are their relationships? What and who are they attracting into their lives? A Tantric takes notice. They become aware of their space. They become aware if they are out of balance. They take responsibility for their own space in order to bring more clarity and harmony into their lives."



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Benefits of Tantric Sex

7:47 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"What are the benefits of Tantric sex?"
www.sex-pat.com/blog, September 4, 2008

"Tantric sex is not just regular sex. The average -in-out-have a nice day- kind of sex is seen by those who practice Tantric sex as simply wasting energy on something that could be much more than that. Therefore, one could say that Tantric sex means taking sex to a new dimension and using it to improve the link between body and spirit and to extend the rejuvenating power of orgasm to the whole body. After all, why shouldn-t we profit from something that is in our power to do, especially since it does not take much to acquire this skill?

One of the goals of Tantric sex is to stimulate the endocrine glands to produce more hGH, serotonin, DHEA and testosterone. These hormones help improve sexual health, promote the flow of blood through the body, take out the trash (toxins, that is) and strengthen the nervous and immune systems in order to increase the overall health. A person who-s into Tantric sex feels healthy and rejuvenated without the use of substances or devices. Sex is quite enough to bring about these changes in a person. However, one must know how to engage in sex and what to do in bed in order to achieve this healthy state."



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How to begin with Tantric Sex

8:58 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"Tantric Sex for Beginners"
www.completemom.com, August 3, 2008

"If you are a woman that dreams of a man who will worship you—who will feed you strawberries as you lie naked on satin sheets and massage your skin with scented oil as he dusts a feather up and down your body, then read on. If you are a man who wants to deepen your sexual pleasure and improve your love relationship (which includes having more sex) then tantric sex might be for you.

What is it?
The word tantra means a tool for expansion. The heart of tantric sex is learning to see your lover as truly divine and holy. During lovemaking the five senses are engaged and an intimate connection is created between lovers using breath, meditation, and body positions. The tantric sexual experience engages the body as a whole instead of focussing exclusively on exciting the genitals in order to achieve orgasm. Not that orgasm is left out of tantric sex—many participants describe the orgasms they experience, after connecting in such an intimate way with their partner, as bliss. In fact tantra teaches that harnessing one’s desire and using the energy of sexual arousal can lead to self-realization and enlightenment. Sex as a path to enlightenment—certainly sounds better than fasting and selling your worldly possessions!"

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The Dikpalas

9:06 PM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"The Guardians of the Ten Directions"
www.livingtantra.net, August 31, 2008
"The guardians of the ten directions (dikpalas) are powerful personalities.

Indra to the East.
Agni to the Southeast.
Yama to the South.
Nirriti to the Southwest.
Varuna to the West.
Vayu to the Northwest.
Soma (or Kubera) to the North.
Ishana to the Northeast.
Brahma above. (zenith)
Ananta below. (nadir)

These are ancient powers, described in the Vedas, who personify, communicate and mediate fundamental life processes and wisdom virtues.

None of the dikpalas can be summed up in a word. They each hold multiple capacities, complex associations and are the subject of rich mythologies. You can research these online as a place to begin.

Each dikpala has a proper place in human life and worship. So to say that Yama is the lord of death is not incorrect, but it is so simplified, it doesn’t convey much that is useful to someone who wants to become more directly aware of aliveness of our world.

All Tantrik ritual engages with the dikpalas."



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Last Longer With Tantra

10:27 AM Posted by 4 Freedoms Energy Sex in Conscious Relationship

"Last Longer With Tantra"
By David Strovny, www.askmen.com

"This isn’t Philosophy 101. There won’t be any debates or unearthing and dissecting of the secrets of tantric sex. You’re not interested in converting to a tantric lifestyle, but you would like to try some techniques that will enable you to last longer, orgasm harder and leap tall buildings. OK, so you won’t be able to leap tall buildings, but you will be able to keep your pleasure at its precipice while you take her over the edge again and again. If you’re interested in giving her a good time that she won’t soon forget, read on. With these tips, you won’t succumb to sexual pleasures until you’re both gasping and you decide to take that plunge. It’s all in your control."

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